have you ever undergone a great deal of frustration caused by your best friend who are good at English and Mathmatics... and have good looking , and have well- proportionate body, have money in house ? In another way, i will question. If you are a basketball player , but you have so short height that you can not make a great dunk shot. In this situation, how do we react in such cases? Of course, you start to compare you with your friends and condemn you with the fact that you lack the ability that your friends have but you do not. As time goes by, we rationalize our weakness and easily preclude that i am not as smart as him or she, and it is natural for him to surpass me.
However, why should we be frustrated with our weakness and call people who are smaller and have less experiences as loser and underdog? A great example shows that things that have more limitations and weakness dominate stronger ones.
2. 인류가 자연을 극복한 예
Human beings Is it a little paradoxical? Weakness / directly connected to dominion on nature.
Human beings have been good at changing their weakness to strong points and overcoming their limitations in natural state. In effect, it is well known that human beings are not as survivable as other ecosystem and other creatures. Human beings have not fur as much as 영장류-> so it is hard to live in cold state, and human beings have shorter ability to foresee coming disaster or to search other food by using 초음파... 또... Human being is not as strong as lion or horse
However, it is bound to say that finding out our human beings weakness made possible for human to dominate and 생육하고 번성하게 하다. As we talk about , because human beings have not as much fur as animals, to live in cold state , human being created a clothes and put them on and even human beings have been spread to regions where people are not easy to . Also, as human beings have less ability than other animals that have very developed sensitive sense, to overcome it , human beings have studied and made intense technological advances. And nowadays even the society is connected and the boarders between nations are being collapsed and the internationalization prevails. It is the result that human beings made their weak points as 현대사회는 국제화의 흐름까지 만들어졌음. 동물이나 식물의 세계에서도 un이 만들어지고 지구촌사회가 만들어지고, 어떤 국제교류가 이루어지고 있는 가? 전혀 그렇지 않다. 그러면서 인간은 가장 고등한 생물로서 존재.
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Then, let's assume that you found your weakness that you want to hide toward other people. In this situation, what are you supposed to? what is the best reactions ? There would be 3 choices or for someone there might be more choices.
First, you avoid your weakness. or you can ignore your weakness completely. Although you already found your weakness, there is no effort to overcome your inability, rather you avoid and shirk thinking itself. people can live with mind that i have no weakness, Maybe it would be the easiest way for us because there is no room for addressing and thinking for long time. Therefore, it is not a desirable approaching way. and let's see the next alternative.
Second, you accept your weakness and acknowledge your weakness and accept it natural thing. And you rationalize that everyone have weakness to some extent. And you think that it is a characteristic that make you as you. This approaching way really makes you feel relived and free from the plight. This approaching way is desirable resolutions that is suggested by mentalist to help people who are suffering from frustration of them. This approaching way is praised as treatment for modern people. However, there is limitations that are enough to correct our weakness and develop us. Let's step one step more.
Third, the most desirable way to react to weakness is to address your own new way, not a traditional way to counter stronger counterpart. And through it, you can be cracked and extremely depressed. However, through the process, you can overcome your limitations and weakness. you'd better to experiences that show your weakness 철저하게, and encounter stronger one.
I will introduce a man who was really good at reacting when he discovered his weakness and inability and changed them into the strongest point.
1. Richard Branson had a lack of experience. Most CEO have many experiences and people generally think that person who have former career in a specific field would be good at dealing with matters. However, Richard Branson focused on service or product rather than his own experience as CEO. When he embarked on a news business, in actually he has no experience in the field. However, he frankly told to others that he had lack of experience and 다른 신문사와 비교했을 때 경쟁력을 갖춘 어떤 청소년들을 타깃으로 하는거??
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1. 리처드 브랜슨은 대중 앞에서 발표하는 걸 싫어한다.
(Richard Branson hates public speaking.)
하지만 그는 대중 앞에서 발표하는 걸 지인과 같이 1대1로 대화하는 것처럼 여기기로 했다. 그의 앞에 있는 많은 관중에 집중하기 보다, 자신이 한 사람에게 말하고 있다고 상상해서, 무대공포증보다 그의 인격이 더 빛나게 했다.
3. 리처드 브랜슨은 난독증이 있다.
(Richard Branson has Dyslexia.)
하지만 그는 이러한 장애조차 자신의 비즈니스의 일부로 만들어서, 연설을 읽기보다는 귀를 기울였고, 긴 문장보다는 시각 자료를 제공했다. 그가 캠페인의 메시지를 빨리 이해했다면, 다른 사람들도 마찬가지일 거란 걸 알 수 있었다.
4. 리처드 브랜슨은 가방 끈이 짧았다.
(Richard Branson was Academically challenged.)
하지만 그는 이것을 더 대단한 걸 하기 위해 태어났다는 신호로 받아들였다. 어렸을 때부터 그의 생각이 다른 사람들과는 다르다는 걸 알았고, 이를 받아들이고 학교를 중퇴하고 자신의 비전을 따랐다. 학점이 그의 자부심이나 꿈에 영향을 미치게 하지 않았으며, 오직 자기 자신에게 매긴 학점만 땄다.
5. 리처드 브랜슨은 쉽게 질린다.
(Richard Branson gets bored easily.)
하지만 이 아이디어에서 다음 아이디어로 옮겨 타면서, 빠른 속도로 달려가는 자신의 비전을 따라갔다. 새로운 사업을 벌일 때에는 언제든 처음부터 철저히 구축하는데 몇 달을 들였고, 이후에는 그가 다른 대단한 아이디어로 옮겨갈 동안에 그 사업을 운영할 사람들을 채용했다. 이런 식으로 쉽게 질리지 않을 누군가에게 경영을 위임하면서, 그는 그 사업이 지루해질 여지를 두지 않았다.
8. 리처드 브랜슨은 컴퓨터에 약하다.
(Richard Branson is not computer-savvy.)
하지만 그는 자신을 위해 컴퓨터로 하는 모든 업무를 해 줄 사람들을 알고 있다. 그는 기술을 최대한 활용할 수 있는 능력과 지식을 가진 사람들에게 컴퓨터로 하는 업무를 위임한다.
So what i want to say is that you'd better to go through many adversities and limitations. Although you would be extremely cracked by one stronger than you, you need to know your weaknesses precisely. In our individual weaknesses, definitely, there is room for being stronger and f.... perhaps even, it may be more effective when you are not used to ddding and there are more possibility that you can be better off in the state of not aware of. and also what you should remember is that there is n A famous writer, malcom gladwell says in his book " david and goliath."
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